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He never even seems to notice anyone else! I think my parents would accept my bisexuality, especially since I'm married to a man and therefore not actually dating women, but they're still busy processing the fact that I'm not Christian.

In a way, marrying a man makes it easy to 'hide. It can be freeing not to have to worry about people's negative reactions to even just seeing you with your partner.

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He's 15 and his older brother is 18 and hasn't been told and I'd been wondering for a long time about how to address it with them, if I needed to address it, or if I should just let it be.

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I felt like I couldn't bring my boyfriend around my friends because he was so painfully straight and not well versed in culturally queer things. And I admittedly feel insecure about dating men and not being 'queer enough' to hang.

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They talk to me as if I'm straight When I mention women I dated in the past people sometimes say, 'Oh, were you a college lesbian? Which is, y'know, hurtful.

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