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If you have done something unknowingly to hurt somebody, ask, talk about it and if need be, apologise. Toxic people have a way of sending out the vibe that you owe them.
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I had to remind myself that telling the teenage girl who served me my popcorn at the movie theatre that I liked her earring did not count as social interaction. Seriously, this is hard and feels crazy, but it works.
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After ignoring a text for three days, some friends of mine received replies like It is okay to ease back in slowly and be selective. I know, it sucks. Push.
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And how we choose to give from our cups is not up for debate.
Certainly, leaving a space is not an attack on anyone. For self. If you find yourself feeling attacked or abandoned, or neglected, Where to fuck free girls in Minot North Dakota your social media social network has pieced-off in some way…Stop and breathe and ask yourself if someone leaving a group or not playing tag games every time is all about you or them and what their energy levels are permitting.
For me, some days are clearer. The best anyone can do, should our social media friends yes, they are real friends pull away or go ghostly, is to check on.
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And if this ghostly friend is suffering from a bout of depression, that goes double. People suffering from depression do not owe an apology for their depression.
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You notice when people you care about, or just regularly interact with, shift in behavior. And you point out this shift, "Hey, I saw [this] in your reply, I don't know what is going on over there, but I hope you're okay, and I am here if you need someone to talk to.
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It's draining. Cup empties. We all have lives. We all have struggles that stay on our side of the screen.